·Clean
your home. It's usually the single best way to improve your environment,
and it costs nothing. Plus, even a new sofa won't fix a dirty house.
·Get
rid of something. It's free and free-ing. The bonus? Helping your apartment
lose weight is a lot easier than dieting.
·Lay
off the shelter porn. Just as ads make it seem like everyone's a beautiful
underweight 21-year-old, shelter mags and blogs (yes, us too) often feature
beautiful homes that can make your own space seem like it doesn't measure up.
Work on learning to love your home for what it is.
·Paint.
Nothing perks up a room like a fresh coat of paint, and the
right color can offset things you already own, elevating your whole
apartment to a new level.
·Rearrange
your furniture. It's a really effective way to change your outlook on your
home, it's free, and it gives you a good workout.
Some days I dream of downsizing our mini McMansion to a smaller, hipper, edgier, totally cool place. Something that looks like it was decorated by Sixx Designs and very worthy of Venice Beach or Napa. We'd wear vintage tees, host weekly wine parties, and do our morning yoga outside on our open air patio. Then other days I just want a small, quaint apartment on a side street in Florence, Italy, where I can sit on my antique chaises drinking espresso every morning and have date-nights of fresh pasta at the corner restaurant each evening. We would definitely be regulars at the Uffizi.
Others days find me dreaming of an island house with all white floors, white comfy furniture, and bursts of color in very unexpected places. We would live in flip flops, untucked clothes, and always smell of coconut oil.
My dream always involves one happy thought--my sweet family would still by my side helping me to make new adventures, and helping to make music and laughter the source of our entertainment. And my dream always involves one panic attack--what would I do with all my stuff?